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Check yourself before you reck yourself – the ego

According to Eckhart Tolle in the book A New Earth, “No ego can last for long without the need for more. Therefore, eating keeps the ego alive much more than having. The ego wants to want more than it wants to have. And so the shallow satisfaction of having is always replaced by wanting. This is the psychological need for more, that is to say, more things to identify with. It is an addictive need, not an authentic one.”

Taming the ego is a constant struggle along the conscious journey, do not get discourage, rather understand this is part of staying the course. Like holding a pose in yoga even when the pose gets a little uncomfortable – let go of the physical part of the pose and go inward and focus on your breathing.

Are you staying authentic with yourself and look inward to your authentic self?

Are you buying things to have them or because you want them?

What are you doing to starve your ego?


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Never too late to set your New Year’s Resolutions

We know that most of you set your resolutions/ intentions already for the new year. However for those of you who have not created resolutions/ intentions for the new year, now is a great time to start – remember it is never too late to start when you are living life.

9 Healthy New Year’s Resolutions
By Amy Zerello

Welcome the new year with a renewed commitment to living healthy. Our resolutions for wellness will help keep you energized, fit, and beautiful from the inside out. Click Here for the rest of the article.


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The Introduction

When you meet someone how do you introduce yourself? What do you tell them you do? How do they remember the conversation? How do they remember you?

Most likely in a conversation between Steve and Paul, two business people traveling in first class, the conversation goes something like . . .
Steve: “What do you do?”
Paul: ” I am an attorney for Noonecares, Wechargetoomuch & Smith PLLC.”
Steve: “What type of law?”
Paul: “We focus on Corporate law mainly transactional work and business litigation. What do you do?”
Steve: “I work for a manufacturing company in the Midwest.”

Not exactly interesting or exciting and most definitely not going to make a connection that leads to a referral. What if Steve and Paul actually took a different approach to describing themselves and the services they offer. . .
Steve: “What do you do?”
Paul: “Actually, what I do for my clients is assist them in resolving disputes with personal and business situations that affect their ability to grow their business.”
Steve: “How do you do that.”
Paul: “We focus on identifying the issues affecting their business and transform the outcomes using strategic decision making, kind of like a chess match. What do you do?”
Steve: “Thanks for sharing that – very interesting. We assist our clients in producing first in class products to gain marketshare and improve efficiency for their customers. By the way, I have someone that I would like you to talk to. I might have a referral for you.”

The keys to creating a dynamic response include:
1. Answering the question “What do I do for my clients?”
2. Determining what type of artist you are – what do you create? What value do you add through your products or service?
3. Describe your services as if they were superhuman powers. Not bragging or boasting, just sharing how you are able to change the world each day.

We have an opportunity each day to create ourselves in the way we introduce ourselves. How do you introduce yourself? What is your art? What superhuman power do you have?

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